How painful moments create change
Yes you can, but you have to start by taking small action every day.
If you look at how we all make decisions, you will notice that majority of our changes are a result of something uncomfortable or painful. Changes come as a result of contrast – experiencing something we don’t like and making a decision to do something about it. So, painful moments create change but unfortunately, many of us focus on the pain and why it’s there in the first place.
All of life experiences nudge us to course correct and to be more in line with who we are. My hope is that we can use the beauty of something unpleasant and use it to our advantage. I created a video on the topic and I wanted to share it with you all. En-JOY.
Yes you can, but you have to start by taking small action every day. Here’s a recent video I did that will compliment these tips!
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Join the crowd and be happy you did.
The danger behind fitting in
Someone recently set me on fire by saying that I should make sure my kids fit into the American society by going out my way to provide cultural experiences because their parents are immigrant and God forbid they stood out. I think this is how we create cages for our kids and ourselves and it’s a danger to society and I explain why.
80/20 formula
As I develop personally and work with others, I am tapping into something rather magical and during a very early morning meditation, it came to me as 80/20 formula and I wanted to share it with you.
This past week, I wanted to throw in the towel
I am the most optimistic, glass half full and “things are going to work out” person in the entire world. I just am, I was born this way. Then, this past week I have experienced some really tough conversations and some really negative people. At some point, I got so discouraged and just wanted to go away.