Rough New Beginnings
Yes you can, but you have to start by taking small action every day.
First, when you start something, it’s often confusing and clumsy. It doesn’t feel right because of the voices in your head and because because your insecurity is reflected in words and opinions of others and that is super scary. If you are starting a new job, new business, new training, having a new baby. Therefore, sit with the discomfort for some time and let it show you what’s not working.
Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. Sometimes, you have to do it enough to flex those muscles (sorry, affirmations don’t work here). Perhaps, you may need to make some tweaks.
But, for goodness sake, don’t give up because someone told you that your idea sucks. Go within and see why you are not sure of it first. When you are 100% committed to something and you believe in it. Feedback from others disappears and if it persists, it’s simply doesn’t matter.
If you are ever struggling with something and need guidance. 
Send me a question and I will answer it on live broadcast, just don’t give up and believe in you because I believe in you.
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Join the crowd and be happy you did.
The danger behind fitting in
Someone recently set me on fire by saying that I should make sure my kids fit into the American society by going out my way to provide cultural experiences because their parents are immigrant and God forbid they stood out. I think this is how we create cages for our kids and ourselves and it’s a danger to society and I explain why.
80/20 formula
As I develop personally and work with others, I am tapping into something rather magical and during a very early morning meditation, it came to me as 80/20 formula and I wanted to share it with you.
This past week, I wanted to throw in the towel
I am the most optimistic, glass half full and “things are going to work out” person in the entire world. I just am, I was born this way. Then, this past week I have experienced some really tough conversations and some really negative people. At some point, I got so discouraged and just wanted to go away.