Hello my beautiful people and welcome to Uplevel together podcast. Pleased to uplevel in every aspect of your life, from personal development to mindset and spirituality, to business tips in relationship building, we bring you best interviews, tools, and inspiration where one episode can change your whole life. Here’s your host Jasna Burza. Hey, beautiful humans, it’s Jasna here I have a very important conversation to share with you today. Having said that, The audio is not that great because it was recording it in the car. And I was just very emotional. And it wasn’t I wasn’t close to the mic. Anyway, the conversation is so worth having. And this podcast is one of the most emotional ones that I’ve ever recorded. So please ignore the static and the background noise. I think the message will still come through just as powerfully, thank you, and love you all.
Hello, my beautiful, beautiful majestic humans, your dear friends. Yes, nah, the drill sergeant and the best D who brings you cupcakes as one client described it. Today I wanted to do a solo episode and not have a guest to talk about few unbelievably important things that really blew me away and are an affirmation of the things that we have been talking about. And hearing society vibe, and also on an individual level. And I really wanted to share this, which was without further ado, here we go. It is it was a packed full day. And with with clients and amazing stories in just constant movement, the first and foremost reminder of how beautiful it is to find something that you love doing from 13 years ago, well 15 When I started kind of dabbling in coaching, that 13 years and owning my business right now and doing it I have never in my life consider doing anything else. And it took me a long time to figure out and find my zone of genius defined as something that, you know, I wanted to do for the rest of my life. It wasn’t overnight, but the signs and signals about what I wanted to do and who I was, were always there. And that is kind of one of the things that I really wanted to talk about to all of us is that we are waking out to this different reality in the world where so many things that we have been told the things on which the society lies the so called truths are nothing but lies that we have been told about how to live our lives and how to you know find a satisfaction life and what’s really important and I think we need to start questioning all of those things and allow ourselves to pursue our own dreams in a way that is so incredibly authentic with who we are so this morning imagine with a dear friend who the client was just such a beautiful beautiful kind incredible human and she has been searching but she is very clear about what is it that she wants to do and what’s what that looks like. And you know as we talked about those this conversation around not having the certification or not feeling like delegating our power to others will like they have more more training and like if you have been doing something for it so much
time that that others are really thanking you for it why would you share it with others what is stopping you from putting yourself out there it is easiest flipping the camera and recording yourself in in a way that’s meaningful sharing the things that you have to say because your words and your insights matter no matter who you are. Even now I’m driving home after unbelievable day for me there was so moving and insightful that instead of you know just forgetting about it, I want to share it with you. And these are as you know, you’ve heard me say disease or car chronicle vinyasa, but there’s such important lessons that if I didn’t share it, you know, I would go and hang my kids and I would you know, tomorrow would wake up and the feeling of me sharing wouldn’t be as intense. So flip the darn camera. tell someone about what it is you’re working on. Tell us Friends, tell a mother tell a child, tell a spouse, tell a stranger about what your dreams are. Because what happens at the moment that we share some of those things that we have been suppressing and hiding and a fear that they will not be accepted is that we give birth to ourselves a little by little by little. And that is a process wherein we become more authentic or be become to lead lines in alignment where we become more true to ourselves. And where we really show ourselves where we are made up. You have a voice, it is powerful, use it, you have a gift that God has equipped you that you were born with. So you may not use the word, God, whatever you use whatever word you want, but there is a gift that you came into this world with, that is not merely for your own consumption and gathering of the material, it is to make a difference in the world. I am so adamant about that. So use it. And the faster you do, the faster you’re going to come into alignment into every aspect of your life. Secondly, I went to an incredible, beautiful launch party of a dear friend. And I was so moved, I cried multiple times over this is one of the most remarkable people that you will meet. Her name is Paula Dora. And she just launched a book called one decision away. And I said they’re so humbled that I am sitting in a circle of someone who’s so gracious, so powerful and so resilient. Paula’s story is a true American rags to riches, what this woman has overcome in this world and how she created a world for herself is humbling, awe inspiring. I could cry even though growing up growing up in incredible poverty in Brazil. You know, we talk about poverty here in America, I mean, poverty beyond anything you’ve ever seen, physical sexual abuse, so many of the things that has gotten in the way where she is not supposed to be here. And yet, she always believed that she trusted her, got her faith to put one foot in front of the other. So I guess sometimes very frustrated by people who have all these luxuries. And we choose to complain about the things which was to complain about the things that are really seemingly insignificant. We choose to complain about the things that in a big scheme of things are not nearly as
good listen, we all have realities, we all have the things that are relative, right? I’m not talking about that. But it is a powerful reminder that we are like Paula said one decision away, to change our life for whatever it takes a book or podcast. Remember at the beginning of this, this, my interest is what I believe in one conversation one piece of advice. One insights can change your entire world around. If you are not happy if you feel like there is more to life, if you are just believing that God created you with something to leave some kind of impact. Don’t you dare ever stop believing in that something because it is out there not only from my own story football story from hundreds 1000s of people that I have worked with that I’ve seen this happen and by the way, go to Barnes and Noble Amazon, look for a book a one decision away by Paula door I’m going to have on my podcast, you’re going to be utterly blown away. But that is what it takes. What is your excuse? That is what it takes. I’m losing my voice because I’ve been talking all day. But this is so powerful to continue talking about over and over and over again. Then I got an A quick call with a dear clients. So what I do, I do one time sessions with people who just need clarity, they need a quick conversation with me a quick meeting and then what we do is spend a month following up it’s kind of like a best version of a monthly coaching right when people who don’t feel like they need an ongoing support so a beautiful client call me today we had an amazing session. Wonderful human and that’s a gift that I get to work with really the most wonderful humans on planet Earth and she was gonna stop because she’s like, you know, I feel like I took this day off and now I feel unproductive and what should I be focusing on? It was so remarkable that the conversation 50 minute conversation was able to reel us in and be like, Okay, well, what’s what’s pressing? Those are my favorite conversations. It’s easy to coach in the moment because you can really work with those emotions. And what’s beautiful now, at the end of the day, she send the images, and the notes that she has written about the day based on what he’s done that we have created that she would do. And I was so overcome with emotion. so overcome with emotion is not complicated. All we all want is to be happy with ourselves, we want to be aligned and coherent with ourselves, our values, and others. Very rarely, is it? I want a yacht and I want a billion dollars, it was a wonderful things and should be desired. I love maneuver, he talked about this, we should desire those expressions, but those things do not guarantee the fulfillment ourselves, the happiness, the joy. What gives us that is the deep intersect introspection of figuring out who we are in what we want and asking ourselves over and over again. Am I doing it? Am I happy? And how do I take the first step forward, and people are doing it, we’re starting to wake into that possibility. So don’t be a cynic. It doesn’t cost a dime, to turn your world around to change your life. And the moment you start making excuses, and say they will cost you something is that you are not ready to move forward. So decide, and when you decide, watch everything, change everything. And that’s just that important.
Then I had gosh, like what a what an amazing, powerful, affirming day, then I had a meeting with a new client monthly coaching client who had been a stay at home mom for over a decade. And she’s like, I’m just ready for something else, I want to make an impact. And this isn’t cutting yet. And for all the moms out there who have been wiping butts for way too long. And feeling like you know, my husband, you would come home when the kids were little is like, what did you do all day, and he would look at the messy house. I did everything. And it would look like I did nothing. And it’s just this there comes a time where you just feel like you want more. And she wanted to figure out what she wanted? What is my purpose in life? What did I want to do? And I have done enough of these to know that people know what they want. And they all come and they will tell me I have no idea. And they all walk away with clarity, because I do believe that we all know. But we are afraid to say it. We haven’t taken the time to ask ourselves the right questions. And we have never found someone who believed in us so powerfully. So my job in that situation is to do all three of those things. And what was so amazing within an hour, she was literally overcome with emotion. And she said, Oh my god, that is it. Yes, of course that is it. She was clear as a 20 minutes into conversation. Like I think you know what you want. She’s like, really? I have no idea. I’m like, Let me gather some more evidence. So in in coaching, after you’ve been coaching for over a decade, you understand that their practices and the questions you can ask you’re constantly knocking and open different door. To find out without an agenda be open to who this person in front of you is and if you do and you do this as humbleness, you will always get an answer. And I always believed that in my session, there’s a great unseen power. I pray I asked that the guidance be shown because I believe that this is a universe that wants to give birth to itself. And he can only do that if you and I and everyone else is aligned and trust themselves enough to take the first step. So trust yourself enough. Take the first step and the second step. Don’t decorate before you build a house. What do I mean by that? Don’t get into the what you know the details and the nitty gritty you’re just gonna get into your own way. Get out of your own head. First start believing in affirming creative vision boards dream to share your idea with someone before you actually start to you know, look into the logistics and the analytical brain let yourself breeze Let yourself imagine and envision and then I got an amazing text again from a dear client that I have worked with for years on and off. He has done so many revaluations so many times has he manifested things and given birth to himself over and over again. So he reached out about a month ago really struggling and really asking for, you know, like I’m at the precipice and what you know I’m ready for it. New transition for new change. And he’s like, I just I’m afraid because I don’t have anything else lined up. But I know this is no longer it. And now I have this time and you know, and he was, you know, he, he he knows that he’s a manifester. But the fear sets in when he wouldn’t have next steps, right? There’s reality, there’s financial situation, we need to pay the bills and do all these things. And what you know, what did I done, I didn’t done to get out there and look for jobs right away, I said, the most important thing you can do is take the time to become the very crystal clear about what that is. Because what you know, every single situation gives us more clarity, every single job, every single client, every single day, gives us more clarity about what is it that we don’t want, and what is it we do, we’re constantly evolving, building changing, and there are no mistakes in this universe in your life, you never make a mistake, you make a decision that allows you clarity about next steps, so becomes a stepping stone. So, so called mistakes, you call them mistakes, a waste of time, and never waste of time. They’re stepping stones, to your higher self, to your love, and due to your success. So then when I got the message, is taking the time to do this. And he was very open. He just told me that he got a job offer for that is really alive in everything he wants to do. Right? That is him, bringing his most authentic selves. And he said, it’s more money that I have ever made in my life. I mean, over and over and over again, I could tell you the story over and over and over again, these are the kinds of stories that that need to be told. We live in a world right now that is so focused on the negativity and the polarization and the fears, and all of those things are out there. But for every negativity, there’s a positive thing. There’s the child smiling, there’s a friend helping another one. They’re the lovers falling in love over and over again, people finding themselves over and over again, people inventing things, people helping others, people healing others. Where are you on that?
On that chart on that bar on that line on that, on that spectrum, you have to find yourself so that you could be doing already what you love. Just know that not every day is going to be completely aligned. But every day, you can take steps to bring yourself more into alignment with that you can always do it. These are going to make you more coherent with yourself. It could start with just taking a simple bath, or walking in nature or doing something that pleases you. That brings you into that high coherence with oneself fired up, I have lost my voice, but it’s the power conversation that I had to share with all of you. So if this is useful in any way, use it, give it away, share it, but use it for yourself that it inspires you He blesses you because when you bless yourself, and you give yourself permission to be blessed, and joyful, you do the same for everyone else in the world. I love you my beautiful people so profoundly so dearly. And I am all they will continue to fight for you to speak for you and to always and forever be of service to all of you. God bless you have a beautiful rest of the day. And may you always believe in permission granted for whatever the heck you deeply desire. And so it is
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